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Maybe If a White Man Says It...

Nov 20, 2025
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Happy Thursday, Coffee Talkies!

Whenever Black women speak of the ills within the Black community, there is always guaranteed pushback.

Folks simply don't take kindly to anyone who doesn't want to "go along to get along"...

Especially if that means calling out the things that hold Black women back...

Calling out black males...

Calling out the reasons why so many Black women remain single...

Sure, sometimes Black folks are receptive...

But many times, they are NOT.

The kicker is that I know that I'm not the only one who sees this.

I'm well aware that many Black women (and many within the Black community as a whole!) see the things that I see, but they simply don't want to have the conversations aloud. 

But just know this...

The WORLD sees how Black people are...

The WORLD sees how Black men treat Black women...

And they are all paying attention.

So, when this white guy said what he said in the picture below, it went viral:

And like I said above...

Maybe if a white guy says it, then maybe Black women will get a clue!

And just to be clear, I have not a clue who "blackjack_mozart" is... 

But as the saying goes, even a broken clock is right twice a day...

And in this case, he's exactly right!

Too many black dudes, thus the Black culture, believe in 50/50 dates. And that's problematic.

Don't believe me? Think I'm lying?

Check out this pic that's circulating on social media right now:

Too many Black women are more than willing to go 50/50 on dates, yet they are still single.

So, the problem lies within the Black community, no? 

Changes must be made, correct?

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If you're tired of being single...

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