Store My Library Caffeinated Commentary

CACT | Est.2016

About Contact
← Back to all posts

Maybe If a White Man Says It...

Nov 20, 2025
Share to…
Share
Connect

Happy Thursday, Coffee Talkies!

Whenever Black women speak of the ills within the Black community, there is always guaranteed pushback.

Folks simply don't take kindly to anyone who doesn't want to "go along to get along"...

Especially if that means calling out the things that hold Black women back...

Calling out black males...

Calling out the reasons why so many Black women remain single...

Sure, sometimes Black folks are receptive...

But many times, they are NOT.

The kicker is that I know that I'm not the only one who sees this.

I'm well aware that many Black women (and many within the Black community as a whole!) see the things that I see, but they simply don't want to have the conversations aloud. 

But just know this...

The WORLD sees how Black people are...

The WORLD sees how Black men treat Black women...

And they are all paying attention.

So, when this white guy said what he said in the picture below, it went viral:

And like I said above...

Maybe if a white guy says it, then maybe Black women will get a clue!

And just to be clear, I have not a clue who "blackjack_mozart" is... 

But as the saying goes, even a broken clock is right twice a day...

And in this case, he's exactly right!

Too many black dudes, thus the Black culture, believe in 50/50 dates. And that's problematic.

Don't believe me? Think I'm lying?

Check out this pic that's circulating on social media right now:

Too many Black women are more than willing to go 50/50 on dates, yet they are still single.

So, the problem lies within the Black community, no? 

Changes must be made, correct?

With that being said, if you're tired of the same ol' same ol' from Black men...

If you're tired of being single...

If you're ready to learn how to meet the right guy FOR YOU...

Then be sure to grab my holiday season dating guide, written specifically for Black women who want MORE! ⬇️⬇️⬇️

Finding Love During the Holiday Season: A Comprehensive Guide for Black Women ☃️❄️🎄 

This handbook is more than just a guide; it's your roadmap to finding love and building a relationship that lasts...

All done the Coffee & Cream Talk way!

Cultural Critic | Social Commentary | Writer | Relationship Sp...

The intersection where all things RACE, GENDER, & POP CULTURE meet! Building camaraderie and community by examining ideas, thoughts, ster...

www.coffeeandcreamtalk.com

Download Guide Now 🎄❄️☃️❤️

Check out the pics and links above! Your thoughts?

Responses

Join the conversation
t("newsletters.loading")
Loading...
Alexis Ohanian Doesn't Suffer Fools!
Happy Friday, Coffee Talkies! Alexis Ohanian truly believes in being a protector and provider, as he has NO PROBLEM letting the world know (YET AGAIN!) that he does NOT PLAY about his wife! A few days ago, Serena Williams shared a beautiful photo of her family taken during big sister Venus' Florida wedding... This post is for paying subscribers only Upgrade Already have an accou...
FACT OR FICTION: Tichina Arnold & Brian Austin Green?!
Happy Monday, Coffee Talkies! If you were around during the 90s, then you know that FOX Network ushered in the advent for young, hip, edgy TV shows... And two of the biggest shows during that era were Beverly Hills, 90210 and Martin. BUT... I'm willing to bet you didn't know that two of the show's standout stars actually dated each other... And it's a pretty safe bet that you'd NEVER EXPECT su...
Meet Mr. & Mrs. Preti!
Happy New Year's Eve, Coffee Talkies! Over the past few days, Venus Williams has shared more stunning pics of her BLOWOUT Florida wedding... And one thing's for sure... She's a GORGEOUS BRIDE! So, as we close out 2025, I thought I'd share a few of the bride and groom's best shots, curated especially for you! Check them all out below: This post is for paying subscribers only Upgrade ...

Coffee & Cream Talk: Caffeinated Commentary

Cultural Critic | Social Commentary | Hot Topics | Relationships | Advice | Race | Gender | Pop Culture
© 2026 Coffee and Cream Talk. All Rights Reserved.

Join Our Free Trial

Get started today before this once in a lifetime opportunity expires.