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Living Single & Living LIES!

Oct 09, 2026
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Happy Friday, Coffee Talkies!

Another day...

Another dollar...

Another prime example of pure, unadulterated BLACK MALE FOOLISHNESS!!!

Honestly, they don't cover anything up...

They're completely honest about how they feel about you...

So, when black males tell you how they feel...

BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME!

Seriously, what more will it take, Sis?

If these males don't think that four UNAMBIGUOUS BLACK WOMEN like Queen Latifah, Kim Fields, Erika Alexander, and Kim Coles were attractive back in the '90s...

What in the world makes YOU think that they're attracted to UNAMBIGUOUS BLACK WOMEN TODAY IN 2026???

They are not, and they've told you that...

Repeatedly.

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But too many of y'all simply don't want to hear it...

You want to make excuses for them...

You want to believe in them... and protect them... and fight for them...

And be their hope, their inspiration...

The wind beneath their wings.

Sis, he doesn't want YOU...

Or anyone who looks like YOU.

And that's FINE.

He has a right to be attracted to whomever he wants!

But that shouldn't be YOUR CONCERN!

It's not YOUR JOB to convince him to like Black women. 

Don't waste YOUR PRETTY on these males who have no intention of appreciating it!

And if you find yourself a tad bit confused by this post, wondering...

How did we get here? 

What does the cast of Living Single have to do with this?

Don't worry...

Just watch the short clip below (via YouTube) because it literally explains EVERYTHING:

Was the cast of

So, to summarize:

These four UNATTRACTIVE, UNFORTUNATE, UNAMBIGUOUS BLACK MALES all agreed that the ladies of Living Single were unattractive.

They agreed that no one in the '90s thought the ladies of Living Single looked good.

They agreed that Erika Alexander's character, Maxine Shaw, was the most unattractive...

And they absolutely HATED Maxine's natural hair!

They agreed that even the guys on the show were unattractive as well.

And they all agreed that the women on Girlfriends were more attractive...

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Except what they didn't add was that they were only talking about BIRACIAL Tracee Ellis Ross and Persia White....

Because we certainly know they were NOT talking about UNAMBIGUOUS Jill Marie Jones and Golden Brooks.

And let's be clear...

The black males y'all regularly exalt as your BLACK KINGS look like this:

That's who said what they said about the Living Single ladies...

Males who'd NEVER be atop anyone's "most handsome" list...

But black males who feel EXTREMELY COMFORTABLE judging, criticizing, and critiquing Black women because Black women have given them the confidence to do so!

Black women protect black males like this EVERYDAY, and then the same Black women act SHOCKED that those same black males DO NOT LIKE THEM!

There have NEVER been any consequences for black males who talk TRASH like this...

Black women still pretend that their BLACK KINGS are actually doing "Kinging" things...

And so, Black women continue to protect the black male ego at all costs to their own DETREMENT!!!

Nowhere in the world should black males who look like THIS...

Feel such a high level of comfort and confidence to call any Black woman unattractive!!! 

But because Black women constantly want to play "Build-A-Man," males like these truly believe that they're on equal footing as attractive men.

They truly believe that they are the PRIZE...

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And that's why I constantly tell Black women to STOP giving these males a chance!

It's not your responsibility to make these fools feel good about themselves!

It's not your job to accept them as the TRASH that they are!

Black women are out here dating black males with NOTHING to recommend them...

Zero good looks... 

Zero personality... 

Zero education... 

Zero career...

Zero accomplishments... 

Zero homeownership... 

Zero craftsmanship...

Zero income... 

But still "giving him a chance" because maybe he has a good heart!!!

Do you see how CRAZY that sounds, Sis?!

It's men like THIS:

Who swear up and down that they have a good heart, but this is exactly how they feel about YOU!!!  

You don't have to put up with this, ladies.

You deserve so much more...

But YOU have to believe it!

You must REFUSE TO SETTLE!!!

You must REFUSE TO ENTERTAIN FOOLISHNESS!!!

As always...

CHOOSE WELL.

CHOOSE WISELY.

BE SMART!

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I'm working on a few seasonal treats of my own that I plan to share with you soon.

I can't disclose any of the details just yet, but if you love all things BWWM swoonworthy, charming, nostalgic, high-heart, and romantical coupled with captivating storytelling, then stay tuned!

I've got some things that I think you'll really like and want to check out!

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So, what do you think about these podcast bros?

Is it par for the course?

Should the ladies of Living Single respond?

Chime in and sound off in the comments!

Be sure to check out the pics and video above! Your thoughts?

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